With a little preparation and planning, you and the person you care for can enjoy a variety of outings and trips that you can relive again and again. Here are some ideas on where to go, how to plan and how to deal with issues that may arise.
Start small
Before undertaking a more lengthy and ambitious trip with your loved one, try short, local trips initially. Consider visiting the local park or shopping centre to gauge the impact of new and unfamiliar surroundings on them.
Involve them in the planning
Don’t make all the decisions for them. Ensure that they are fully involved in the planning of the trip and consider their ideas for where and when to go and if they want to include someone else on the trip.
Go with the moment
If the person you care for says they would like to go for a walk, if feasible, go with them there and then. Equally, if the day of a planned trip comes and they do not want to leave the house, don’t push them.
Enjoy the great outdoors
Being outdoors has enormous benefits for both physical and mental health. Being less crowded, it can also be far less overwhelming for someone with dementia.
Do some venue research
Choosing the right venue is so important. There are many things to consider: is it accessible, will it be too busy, will the staff be able to help you if you need it? It is always a good idea to research your venue before travelling and having a chat with a staff member when you arrive, so that they are aware of your loved ones needs.
Plan your journey
Spend some time planning your journey. What is the likely travel time? Are there any scheduled roadworks that could hold you up and potentially raise anxiety in your loved one? Can you avoid peak hours? Are there any suitable services en route?
Inspirational venues
Consider places that may trigger memories in those you care for, such as local museums or living history venues. For quieter environments, you may want to consider National Trust or English Heritage properties, as they are beautiful properties and are always well-managed, peaceful and calm.
Take plenty of photos
Ensure you take lots of photos to capture your day together. You could also consider making a mini album with keepsakes of your day, so you can relive it together.